Small Things
There are times when I slow down, am mindful, and notice small things. Spring is a particular season for that because nature changes so quickly. I think the blades in my iris bed grow an inch a day. Certainly, the view out my office window at the woods, while always the same, is never the same.
I hope I notice nature year-round and not just in the season when it’s on steroids. In summer, I feel the sunshine on my shoulders that made John Denver happy. It makes me happy, too. On windy days in autumn, I watch brown leaves drift down as if waving goodbye to me. Sure, I notice how very still and silent the outdoors is after a snowfall. Shrubs are dormant, sleeping. Do they make a sound when warm sunny days wake them up? They certainly stretch and yawn with opening leaves.
Because I have a big back yard that an extreme optimist would never ever call a lawn, tiny flowers from some sort of grass or weed pixelate it this time of year. I used to not want the yard mowed, even though the grass needed it, because tiny flowers covered the ground like a picnic quilt. When a breeze comes up, it causes a ripple effect, like “the wave” at a football game, changing the color by revealing the undersides of those tiny petals. Come to think of it, I haven’t seen “the wave” in a long time. Maybe it’s gone out of fashion because it takes a united effort, which seems to have gone out of fashion, too.
Yesterday, I watched a small flock of birds land in the yard, pick and peck at the grass for something, insects, worms, seeds, then fly off en masse. How do they know to fly in unison to a tree, and what is the signal to drop back to the ground? Why did they make the sudden flight? I don’t know much about birds, although I once heard an ornithologist speak about birds having four color cones in their retinas compared to our three. The fourth is ultraviolet, which lets them view an array of colors we can’t see. That explains why we admire handsome red male cardinals, and the female cardinals seem plain janes. I’d love to know what those redbirds see when they look at their mates. They must be neon.
I should be mindful of ephemeral wonders not just in nature. Like a little while ago when I glanced at the time on my computer. 11:11. Isn’t that the legendary mystic moment to reflect, align goals, make a wish? That minute of this very day has already slipped away. Before I waste another second, I’m going to head outside and see what small thing Mother Nature has provided for me to appreciate. Join me?
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The Alley South of Main: Book Four in the Lost Creek Novel Series
Welcome back to Lost Creek, Arkansas, where Olivia and her likable family of friends are making big changes in their lives and the town. But change doesn’t come easy, and each character wrestles with choices. Olivia, with her gentle wit and a bit of sarcasm, journeys through memories of her late husband and narrates the heartwarming story of friendship and community with a few town secrets thrown in. Of course, former NFL player George shows up time and again to poke his finger in the mix. Although serious topics are introduced, all are handled with a sensitive touch.
Fans of Jan Karon’s Mitford series will enjoy the Lost Creek Novels, a contemporary look at life in a small town. Read and enjoy it now.
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2026 essays
- April: Small Things
- March: Kind Strangers
- February: Risky Behavior
- January: Learning from 2025
2025 essays
- December: I’ll Decide for Me
- November: The Flyovers
- October: I Do It For Me
- September: Anam Cara
- August: The Earl of Sandwich
- July: Tinker to Evers to Chance
- June: Hidden Memories
- May: One of My Many Humiliating Moments or Is Honesty the Best Policy?
- April: Unfashionable
- March: Relying on Kindness
- February: I Procrastinated
- January: The Culprit
2024 essays
- December: A Christmas Gift for You
- November: Handbags and Crystals
- October: Kristofferson, The Poet
- September: The Hamburger Stand on Main Street
- August: Aunt Punch
- July: My Unpublished Letter
- June: The Last One
- May: Me? A Swiftie?
- April: My Old Job
- March: Her Silver Service
- February: From Start to Not Yet Finished
- January: Tossing Old Spices
2023 essays:
- December: What I’ve Learned So Far
- November: Indecision
- October: Esprit D’escalier
- September: Hearing the Birds
- August: Happiness is a Perfume
- July: Keep Smiling
- June: Spring Rituals
- May: I’ll Hitch a Ride
- April: The Jonquils
- March: Live in the Moment?
- February: Signs
- January: Resolution: Less Whining
2022 essays:
- December: Dorian Gray
- November: Ozark Seasons
- October: The So-Called Never-Fail No-Risk Plan
- September: An Unwelcome Souvenir
- August: The Gate to Nowhere
- July: The Land Line
- June: Don’t Call Me
- May: Who’s To Judge?
- April: Time Changes
- March: The Queen of England
- February: A Bit of Chaos
- January: Headlines!
2021 essays:
- December: The Junk Drawer
- November: Keep Your Fork
- October: Write Your Life
- September: Sleeping on the Floor
- August: Life on the Mississippi or What I Learned on My Summer Vacation
- July: Jerry Stamm
- June: A Trying Time or Replacing the Mattress
- May: The Pace
- April: Learning From a Past Mistake
- March: Attitude Change Needed
- February: I Am an Eagle
- January: What Next?
2020 essays:
- December: Old Ornaments
- November: Period.
- October: On One Condition
- September: Capturing Sunshine
- August: Baseball’s Return
- July: They Bug Me
- June: Coincidence or Mysterious Connection?
- May: Spontaneity
- April: The Paints on the Wall
- March: The Signature Sandwich
- February: The Dream Catcher
- January: A Random Act of Kindness
2019 essays:
- December: Raking the Leaves
- November: Reflections in the Mirror
- October: Pioneer Woman
- September: Rewinding
- August: The Last One
- July: Nice People
- June: Jeopardy
- May: Playing
- April: Seeing the World
- March: The Signature
- February: So I Went
- January: NOW do it
2018 essays:
- December: Eureka!
- November: Morning Ritual
- October: The Hard Part
- September: Walking in the Dark
- August: Old is New Again
- July: Change Orders
- June: Country Songs
- May: Scars
- April: This Old Place
- March: Wearing a Robe
- February: A New Adventure
- January: Another Year
2017 essays:
- December: Beginning a Hiatus
- November: A Name
- October: Of Course, I’ll Use the Grand Canyon or How I Spent My Summer Vacation
- September: I Packed Courage, Too
- August: Nothing Dangles From My Rearview Mirror
- July: Grandma Brown’s Desk
- June: Old Paint
- May: Dandelion Yellow
- April: Cleaning Out Our Past
- March: The Flames of Cheer
- February: The Color of Oklahoma
- January: Former Cars
2016 essays:
- December: The Stocking Conundrum
- November: Comfort from a Cup of Tea
- October: A Friendly Wave
- September: Why Are First Memories Bad Ones?
- August: How to Treat a New Widow
- July: My Outrage or A Warning to Women
- June: Rock Collections
- May: May Baskets
- April: Screen Doors
- March: Hiraeth
- February: My New Key
- January: My Book Clubs
2015 essays:
- December: The Real Santa
- November: Mrs. Coker’s Lamp
- October: Life’s A Holiday
- September: School Reunions, a.k.a. Looking Forward to the Past
- August: Risk
- July: Old Shoes
- June: The Ant Invasion
- May: Goodbye to the Sailboat
- April: A Rant
- March: Sharing Joy
- February: On Reading Aloud
- January: The Lesson of Chicken Pot Pie
2014 essays:
- December: The Scent of Christmas
- November: Life Markers
- October: Forgiving Myself
- September: I Won’t Change It
- August: Back in Time and Looking Forward
- July: Changes
- June: The Napkin Controversy
- May: On Being Overwhelmed
- April: A Time for Everything
- March: Washing the Car
- February: Drowning
- January: Who Will Live in My House?
2013 essays:
- December: The Recipe on the Refrigerator
- November: The Lean
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October: Washing Windows
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September: Memories of Music
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August: Leap Before You Look
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May: The Hidden Garden
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April: The Day Before April
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March: My Favorite
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February: The Safety Net
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January: The Friendship House
2012 essays:
- December: Do I Have a Small Mind?
- November: The Wonders Around Us
- October: Gaining Knowledge
- September: Respecting Others’ Beliefs
